How Are The Children?

It's Sunday of an extended Independence Day weekend and I plan to do very little bloging today. I thought I'd post something to think about while relaxing with families and friends. (It's an excerpt from a speech by the reverend Dr. Patrick T. O'Neil, First Parish Unitarian Universalist Church in Farmington, MA.)

Among the most accomplished and fabled tribes of Africa, no tribe was considered to have more warriors more fearsome or more intelligent than the mighty Maasai. It is perhaps surprising then to learn the traditional greeting that passed between Maasai warriors. "Kasserian ingera," one would always say to another. It means, "And how are the children?"

It is still the traditional greeting among the Maasai, acknowledging the high value that the Maasai always place on their children's well-being. Even warriors with no children of their own would always give the traditional answer, "All the children are well." Meaning , of course, that peace and safety prevail, that the priorities of protecting the young, the powerless are in place, that Maasai society has not forgotten its reason for being, its proper functions and responsibilities. "All the children are well" means that life is good. It means that the daily struggles of existence, even among a poor people, do not preclude proper caring for its young.

I wonder how it might affect our consciousness of our own children's welfare if in our culture we took to greeting each other with this same daily question: "And how are the children?" I wonder if we heard that question and passed it along to each other a dozen times a day, if it would begin to make a difference in the reality of how children are thought of or cared for in this country?

I wonder if every adult felt an equal weight for the daily care and protection of all the children in our town, in our state, in our country, in our world... I wonder if we could truly say without an hesitation: "The children are well, yes all the children are well."

What would it be like if the President began every press conference, every public appearance, by answering the question: "And how are the children, Mr. President?" If every governor of every state had to answer the same question at every press conference: "And how are the children, Governor? Are they all well?"

Wouldn't it be interested to hear their answers?

If you are new to this blog, read this and this for some background on why this is top of mind.